We all know how difficult it can be to meet a great guy. Even a good guy. You know the phrase "men are like parking spots, all the good ones are taken."? Well, for the most part it's true. Some way or another they are emotionally unavailable. But what really 'grinds my gears' is when a guy is in a relationship, yet acts otherwise.
My house mate L met a boy who is adorable, funny, and smart. They text constantly and hang out on the weekends. Only problem? He has a girlfriend that he's been dating for three years. Three years. That's not an oh-I-kind-of-like-you thing. That's an I-love-you, we-are-heading-towards-forever situation. You don't mess around with that.
Let's take this past Saturday night as an example. We're at the bar, L and this boy's body language has 'together' written all over. He's buying her drinks, they're holding hands, whispering to each other, and at the end of the night he comes home with us and spends the night.
So who's at fault? Most are quick to blame the boy, he is the one in the relationship after all. But what about L? She's no stranger to serious relationships and how they operate. Shouldn't she know better? Don't be the home wrecker. Maybe his relationship isn't perfect, maybe they do enjoy spending time together. Whatever excuse L throws out there just doesn't sit right with me. Even though nothing has happened physically, this emotional connection has been going on for months.
So please, beware. Don't fall into that trap, don't be that girl or that guy. If someone is in a relationship leave it alone and move on. You're just wasting time you could spend on finding someone who wants to be with you and is available.
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